the perfect response to "because that's just the way it's done!"

“Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter.”

- Bernard Baruch, in response to disputed seating arrangements. 

I saw this quote the other day and it really made me happy. This has been my philosophy the entire time in planning this wedding. And it's fitting that it should've been a response to "seating arrangements" since that's already been the subject of a "because that's just the way it's done" argument. :)